Best of 2019 Podcasts - How to be an Awesome Second Wedding Photographer

I cannot believe we are here already at the end of 2019. Where did this year go? I have to say it’s been a pretty exciting ride over here at Tea with Jainé and I’m excited to bring you our very first Top 5 Podcast countdown from the last year.

Today we are going to start with our No. 5: How to be an AWESOME Second Photographer with Asher Gardner

Do you want to know how to be an AWESOME second photographer at your next wedding? Want to know how to build your network of referrals and transition into being a GREAT wedding photographer? Well, this podcast of Tea with Jainé is especially for you! I chat with my good friend Asher Gardner of Asher Gardner Photography about ALL THE THINGS related to the second shooting at a wedding and how to be awesome at it - SERIOUSLY!! Tons of tips, great advice, and mistakes to avoid on your own journey! Enjoy and happy listening!!

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The Best 2019 Black Friday Deals for Wedding Photographers

I’m sure your inbox is being overrun with “Black Friday Deals” but it IS the best time to save your hard-earned money!! I wanted to create a list to share all of my favorite upcoming Black Friday deals for the Tea with Jainé community.

Please note that some of these sales are happening RIGHT NOW till Cyber Monday, and some do not start till the day AFTER Thanksgiving. Just check the link and see when the sale starts! I hope this is helpful for you!

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Client Management Software

17 Hats - Save up to 50% OFF Annual Memberships (this is what I use)

HoneyBook - Save 50% OFF your annual membership with code FUN50

Tavé - Save up to 60% OFF your annual membership

Photo Sorting and Culling Programs:

Photo Mechanic - Save $20 OFF new licenses and $10 OFF upgrades to the best photo culling software out there!

Online Hosting and Proofing Software:

Instaproofs - Save up to 60% OFF your first year - say that I sent you and I’ll get some extra storage space too. Thank YOU!!

Styling Props & Backgrounds

The Mrs. Box - 25% OFF all velvet ring boxes

Locust Collection - Portable Rollable Styling Surfaces are 25% OFF

Lux Bindery - Fine Art Custom Print boxes, USB Drive Presentation Boxes, the prettiest acrylic USB Drives, and much more! they have a bunch of savings codes when you spend a certain amount. See below!

Spend $100 to receive 10% OFF
Spend $250 to receive 15% OFF
Spend $500 to receive 20% OFF

Frou Frou Chic Ribbons - Save up to 20-30% OFF ribbons. Sale items are 50% OFF

Heirloom Bindery - Flat lay stying boards, styling details ribbons and small dishes and more! Save 25% OFF EVERYTHING in the shop! Use code FEAST25 at checkout

Social Media Scheduling Applications

Tailwind - Pinterest Online Scheduler is giving $70 OFF their annual membership on Monday via EMAIL only. Sign up for their emails to get the deal!

Planoly - Save 30% OFF annual subscriptions with code BLKFRIDAY30

Photography Contracts

The Legal Paige Shop is offering 40% OFF photography contracts including wedding photography contracts and clauses, newborn photography, second photographer contracts, and much more!

Blogging Software:

BlogStomp is having a 40% OFF sale

Album Design:

Fundy Software - Save up to $30% OFF - Fundy Designer Suite is how I easily and quickly design my wedding albums.

Photography Equipment

RL Handcrafts - up to 40% OFF camera straps and dual camera harnesses

MagMod - My favorite lighting modifiers are having a HUGE sale that is going on right NOW!

V Flat Word - Save up to $25 OFF the portable V Flats.
Use Code: BFCM19-VFSINGLE - to save $20 a single v flat
Use Code: BFCM19-VFSET to save $25 off a set of two v flats

Custom Gifting

Greetabl - Save 20% on Holiday Shop orders under $100 with code TURKEY20 and 25% on Holiday Shop orders over $100 with code TURKEY25.

Do you have any Black Friday Deals you’d like to add to the list? Please leave a COMMENT below and let the community know! Thank you - Jainé


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Creating an Inclusive Wedding Experience for Brides - All Who Wander Events

We are chatting with wedding planner Nicole Sheppard from All Who Wander Events about why she is creating a brand new wedding boutique, Wander Atelier so that Brides can have a more inclusive wedding experience from start to finish. I also ask her opinion and advice about how wedding photographers and wedding planners can work together to be more inclusive when servicing their client's needs.

Visit Nicole on Instagram: All Who Wander Events and Wander Atelier - and be sure to let her know you listened to the show!

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All Who Wander Events Nicole Sheppard

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How to Use Instagram for Wedding Photographers - Your Social Team

We are chatting with Manu Muraro from Your Social Team about how wedding photographers should use Instagram for their wedding photography business. Manu shares her advice, tips, and thoughts about how wedding photographers should be using Instagram to its full advantage to book more clients. It's not about how many followers you have, it's about talking to the audience you already have in front of you!

Manu founded Your Social Team in 2017 to help brands and entrepreneurs grow their business by using Instagram and content marketing. She offers classes, e-courses, corporate training, 1:1 sessions and membership to help both solopreneurs and big brands alike leverage Instagram to grow their business and drive sales organically.

Visit their Website & follow Your Social Team on Instagram - Manu shares lots of FREE tips, helpful advice and you’ll get first access to her online courses!

To view and purchase her online courses - Click here for Legit Insta Growth and here Influencer Marketing Done Right (I’ve completed this one and it was really helpful!!)

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Your Social Team Manu Murano

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Podcast Interview with AvaFlora Wedding Florists

We are chatting with Mike and Lori Orlando from AvaFlora all about how wedding photographers and wedding florist can work together on a wedding day. Communication and setting expectations ahead of time is key to having a successful wedding. AvaFlora is a New York based floral design studio that specialize in creating refined, garden inspired floral designs for gift orders, weddings, and events.

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My Fave Business Books You Need to Read!

One of my goals for 2018 that followed me into 2019 was to read a book a month. I went for a few years without reading a SINGLE book and that was pretty shocking. So, I decided to change that and each month I read a new book to help my business and self growth. In today’s brand new Tea with Jainé IGTV video, I wanted to share three favorite business, marketing, and self help books that are making a great impact on my life. You can watch the video here and read below!

Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo

No 1 - Building a Story Brand by Donald Miller - I read this book from cover to cover within three days and absolutely LOVE this book. It’s a clear and helpful guide for you to figure out what your Brand story really is and how to create marketing content that connects with your ideal client. There is a lot o f homework in this book so be prepared with a pen and paper. I purchased a softcover copy from Amazon after borrowing it from the library because I wanted to have it on hand with me at all times to refer too. So happy I did that because I read it all the time!

No. 2 - Girl, Stop Apologizing by Rachel Hollis - It’s no secret how much I loved Girl, Wash Your Face that came out last year. That book TRULY changed my life, my mindset, and the pat of my business. Girl, Stop Apologizing is the follow up to that book that gives you the hands-on tangible tips to get your stuff DONE and get your life moving in the right direction. You can also pick up the Audio Book if you’re busy and want to listen on the go!

No. 3 - Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Folero - All I’m going to say is HECK YES I love this book so much! Marie is a powerhouse coach for women and I love everything she represents and teaches. This book is so powerful it’s going to make you do the hard work to get past your fears, face your dreams, and start making them happen. Everything is Figureoutable is literally my new mantra because in the end, it ALL is capable even if you don’t know it yet. You can grab the Audio version here too.

Each of these books speaks to different sides of my life and business that I want to grow and explore. As a wedding photographer, small business owner, defining my “Brand” is something I was never taught - so having a book to help me figure that out with crystal clear clarity is so helpful. I love Rachel and Marie so much because these strong women are helping other women like myself, embrace who they are, own their past, and determine their OWN future. I would not be here without Girl, Wash Your Face and Crushing It by Gary Vaynerchuk and for that, I am forever grateful. I hope you pick one or all of them up and enjoy them too!


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LoveStories Radio Podcast Interview - Episode 46

You guys know how much I love my LoveStories TV girls, right? They are THE BEST and they love their vendors! I’m so excited to share that I was recently a guest on their LoveStories Radio Podcast - Episode 46. You can listen to it here or read the transcript here on their website. Thank you SO much for having me!! xo

LoveStories Radio Interview
LoveStories TV Podcast Interview - Ep. 46

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Podcast Interview with Paige Griffith of The Legal Paige

We are chatting with Paige Griffith from The Legal Paige all about how to make sure your wedding photography or online business is Legal and Legit in the eyes of the law. Do you know the difference between a S-Corp. Sole Prop, or LLC? Well, Paige breaks it down for you easily and clearly. The Legal Paige a virtual law firm working with online businesses and wedding industry professionals.

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Paige Griffith - The Legal Page

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Teaching at The Bridal Masterclass Experience in New York City!

I’m so excited to share that I’m teaching at The Bridal Masterclass Experience in New York City this Fall! The Bridal Masterclass Experience is a hands-on learning workshop for wedding professionals. I’m going to be teaching posing techniques during the styled shoot portion of the day. There will be several vignettes that attendees can choose from. New York City Nov. 6th - 8th 2019. I cannot wait to see you soon!!

Visit thebridalmasterclassexperience.com to get your tickets before it sells out! Use code VIP25 to save 25% OFF Pre-Sale tickets. Hope to see you there!! xo - Jainé

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Should You Work For Free?

I have to admit that this topic has been on my mind for a long time. I wanted to share my experience and advice that I’ve learned over the last 10 years as a wedding photographer in New York City. I thought that if you were just starting out, you were probably being asked this question just as much as I was (and still AM!) and I hope I can help you make an educated decision as to what you should do for yourself and your company. So, should you work for free?! Let’s dive in!

Should You Work For Free as Wedding Photographer?

Should You Work For Free? Yes AND No

My initial and honest answer is Yes and No. Complicated right? Let me explain.

When you are first starting out and you want to get your name out there, make connections, and new relationships, YES you should absolutely work for free. Offer your services for free to colleges, designers, wedding planners, and so forth to get your foot in the door. I mean, they don’t know you exist yet so you have to introduce yourself to them. You can collaborate on a styled shoot, branding sessions, family photos, etc… the ideas are endless but your free services should not be.

Once you’ve started to make those connections and those people are hiring you for real paying jobs, you need to end your working for free mentality. It’s all well and good but at some point, you have to start charging so you can actually be a business that makes money. You have to remember that you ARE a business, and you need to put an end date/time frame on the amount of stuff you do for free.

Working for exposure. Is it worth it?

How many times have you been asked to work for free because you’ll be paid with “EXPOSURE” from an event? Oh goodness, let me count the ways. At the beginning of your career, for the right client, and it feels right for your brand sure you can work for a 3-hour event for free and get “exposure” but just remember that exposure does NOT pay the bills. You cannot give your “likes” “mentions” and press clippings to the bank for actual money. Sorry, doesn’t work that way!

Partnering with the right brand/sponsor/event can certainly increase your exposure to new eyes but doing these types of events over an over again, will not pay the bills unless you are seeing a direct return from working an event. Such as booking a paying client and making hard-earned money because they met you/liked your work from the free event. If that is happening, then your ROI is high, but if it’s not, it’s time to move on and start charging.

Ask for the details

I learned a hard lesson by working for someone for free who promised me that their event would get published. They said it would be picked up and my name would be shared all over the place which sounds great, right? Well, what I walked into was not only NOT going to be published, it was also a clear sign that my eagerness to please was being taken advantage of. Friends, do be like me (10 years ago) ask for all the details in advance. I wish someone would have told me to ask for a mood board, Pinterest inspiration, or just some photos of how it was going to be styled and where it was going to be held. It was a hard lesson to learn but I hope in sharing this story you learn from my mistakes and don’t end up crying on a bench with your husband afterward knowing that you were just taken advantage of for your photography services.

If you are going to work for free, have a contract!

Take it from me, have a contract for every single one of the jobs even when starting your career. When I first starting out, I did an engagement session for a family member for free. It was over 3 hours long, I didn’t tell them when I was going to deliver the final gallery, how many files were included, or any important information and it created a bit of an uncomfortable situation between the two of us. Now, it’s not their fault, it’s mine. I didn’t know any better but looking back, I should have had a clear contract outlining all of the information so everyone was on the same page. It would have been a better ending for both of us but now, I know better and always have a contract :)

When Should You STOP working for free?

The easiest answer I can give you is this when you can start charging for your work, you should stop doing it for free. You are out of the “get all the experience” phase and have officially crossed over to the “I know what I’m doing” phase and people are asking you to take their photos for them. I think a good indicator for when you should start charging is when people are asking to hire you. It’s a good sign people like what you are putting out there in the world.

Should I Still do Events for free after I am charging?

Well, that’s up to you my friend. I cannot answer everything for you but I know from my own experience that if I feel passionate about an event, charity, or person, I will still offer my services for free or at a discounted rate. If they have no budget but are a blogger, have a service, or their own website, I will negotiate a deal that is a win/win for both of us. Maybe that’s a listing on their vendor page, or use of the venue for a styled shoot later down the road, or an Instagram post to their 100K followers with proper VISABLE credit, something that for me makes sense to barter a deal for services.

So what about you? I’d love to hear your stories and experiences with working for free. Why did you do and was it worth it for you in the end? Did you feel that you gained a lot of great exposure? Did you connect with new people? Please leave a comment below and let me know!! xo


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